Love Those Who Love You And Forget Those Who Don’t Value You
Never have truer words been said than love loves to love. It’s the condition of the heart that we crave to give and receive love. We find solace in human relationships. And, however much we lie to ourselves, all of us have thought of finding the one for us. In this quest to find our true loves, we mistake many for one. And that’s okay. It happens to almost all of us. What you need to keep in mind is that you should always return affection to those who love you.
How do you know if a connection is real? What are the signs of true love? Don’t worry if you can’t tell. We are here to help you out!
Love Those Who Love You
Quite often, it’s just your gut feeling that you need to rely on. But sometimes, it can get a little confusing. When in doubt, think of the following things.
Is It A Give And Take Relationship?
True love is all about giving unconditionally without thinking of receiving. The other side of the coin is that if your partner is your true love, he/she will do the same thing for you.
You Make Sacrifices Without Keeping A Tab
When you find the one, someone you truly love and someone who loves you back, you will do anything to make them happy. You will make sacrifices on your part without keeping a count. Sometimes, they may not even realize what you have done for them. But, just their happiness will make up for it. And they will do the same thing for you.
Can You Picture Them In Your Future?
If you are with someone who you truly love, you will undoubtedly see them in your future. A life without them will be incomprehensible. And your true love will reciprocate the same feelings for you.
If all the criteria are met, you should consider yourself lucky. If it hasn’t, then you need to reassess your relationship. Sometimes, we even make excuses in our heads for the other person because we want them to be our true love.
If you constantly find yourself fighting with your thoughts over someone, chances are, they are not the true one. End the relationship, because you deserve to love those who love you back.
How Do You Know If Your Partner Doesn’t Value You?
Again, your intuition is your friend, trust it.
Do you feel like the relationship is a one-sided one? Do you find yourself making all the effort? Does your partner brush off your concerns as you being anxious or paranoid? If the answer to all this is yes, then your partner does not value you. But most importantly, you are not happy in the relationship. You need to exit immediately.
Life is short, love those who know your worth.