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No one has ever made a difference by being like everyone else

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No one has ever made a difference by being like everyone else

Identity

The journey of life is all about finding yourself. The world we are living in today has conditioned us to copy others in some way or the other. While getting positively influenced is always a welcome trait, one should not forget their own identity in the process. We continue to absorb knowledge, wisdom, and personality traits from every experience we go through in the journey of life. In the process of gaining knowledge from our experiences, one should not forget to nurture their true self and answer their inner callings. It helps us develop our own unique voice and character, which acts as the foundation of our life.

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Don’t follow others blindly

You might be impressed or inspired by someone, and that is a good sign of progress. It helps to learn from others and be positively influenced. It helps us avoid mistakes and gain knowledge that polishes the path to success. However, make sure that your vision for your future is clear, and in the process of getting inspired, you don’t lose your aim. Listen to others, be positively influenced, and learn from others, but never lose your unique identity and vision for it. Blindly following someone would definitely distract you and waste your time and effort, which instead of propelling you forward will put you behind by years.

Identity

Build your unique identity

Building your true identity can be challenging, but it is a fun process. The real secret to building your true identity is by merely being yourself. Stay motivated and have a purpose in life. When you follow a goal in life and want to make a positive difference in your life and the life of others around you, staying faithful to your purpose is essential. Have your own voice, do things the way you want, learn from others, improve yourself, improvise over what you learn, and continue moving ahead. Do not be afraid of making mistakes; just be afraid of not learning from your mistakes.

Be natural, be yourself 

You don’t have to copy someone else completely or live a pretentious life. Just be yourself and carry on the move ahead, and surprisingly you’ll continue to find your way irrespective of how many challenges you face. It is the perseverance and stubbornness to fulfill your purpose and goals in life that act up and empowers you during tough times. Make your own way when there is none. You can only do it by believing in yourself and your dreams.

It may seem challenging and stressful at times, but someone would have already crossed that path if it was easy, isn’t it? Live your life in your terms, and don’t try to imitate to impress others. Do what makes you happy and brings you peace. Happiness is more important than validation, and it is the bitter truth that many people forget in today’s world of social media. You don’t need to prove anyone else but you, so save your energy for that rather than focusing on what others think of you.

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Believe in your dreams

Dare to dream big. It is the only mantra to light the fire within you that would help you stay motivated and focused. Believe in your dreams to believe in yourself, and get rid of self-doubts that may act as roadblocks. You cannot expect to do the same thing you’ve been doing forever and expect different results. Do things differently and make a new plan when the old one doesn’t work or deliver results as expected. Don’t follow others who have tried and failed. Many people would try to discourage you rather than motivate you, but never stop believing in your dreams. Do know that when you don’t give up and stick to your path, the universe will conspire to give you what you want, sooner or later.

 

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