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Fall in love with a person who enjoys your madness. Not an idiot who forces you to be normal.

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Fall in love with a person who enjoys your madness. Not an idiot who forces you to be normal.

Love is that magical feeling that surrounds and overwhelms you when you are going to meet the person you love or see the name of that person show up on your phone. It is an inexplicable feeling that continues to grow and mature with time. While it is natural for the bonding to get stronger as the relationship gets older and people in question age, one should not let the romance in the relationship die. How often have you noticed a couple sitting in the corner table of a restaurant eating their meal in complete silence or glued to their respective phones? Don’t be that couple. In fact, make sure that time doesn’t arrive in your relationship that you two don’t have anything to be excited about or look forward to or talk about. When that special spark in a relationship dies, it takes away with it many things, including the ability to feel love again like previously. 

People are always looking for someone who is good looking, and while it is natural to be after looks, it shouldn’t be the only quality to go after. You need to fall in love with a person with whom you vibe and who understands you even when you are silent. It is the chemistry and compatibility that matters. If you only fall in love with the looks, it definitely won’t last. It is because one day those looks won’t remain the same, but the person inside would continue to be the same. Fall in love with the complete package and not just one aspect of it.

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Most of all, find someone who is not constantly trying to change you to suit his or her needs. Find a person who loves you the way you are and enjoys it more than you do. It is what would help the relationship to not only survive but thrive. We are all different people, and there would always be some difference between any two people. It is a given and known fact, but it is the ability to live with those differences, and love is still the same is what makes a relationship grow with time. You cannot love someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings or is too self-centered to be sensitive to your needs.

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A partner who not only encourages you to be you regardless of the circumstances and situations but inspires you to become a better version of yourself is the person you can’t let go of. Such people are a true gem that you need to treasure with all your heart. Love is an ongoing process, and there are many struggles that it has to face and many tests that it has to pass for the two people to stay together for life. Finding the right person sometimes takes forever, but when you find that person, you know he or she is the one. Just thought of that person lights up your heart, and a big smile comes to your face unknowingly. It is because that person has changed the world around you, and for good.

You don’t want a person who is stiff and rigid and wants you to follow a mundane lifestyle or be boring. Such relationships come with an expiry date, and sooner or later, love dies, and the relationship ends. Be with the person who makes your life exciting and lets you be you. You want a partner to share your life with and not a teacher. Be who you are, and stay the way you are, and if someone tries to change you to suit their preferences, say goodbye and move on. Life is too short of making uncalled for compromises.

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