God removes people from your life because he heard conversations that you didn’t hear
God removes people from your life because he heard conversations that you didn’t hear.
There is always a reason behind something that happens in our lives, whether good or bad. Similarly, we come across hundreds and thousands of people in the course of our lives. Everyone who enters our lives is not always meant to stay. Some stay forever while others play their role and part ways. Life is a long and ongoing learning process, and every day we learn something that we didn’t yesterday. We might not always comprehend what we learned today, but there is a subconscious layer that gets added every day, and it is often influenced and directed through our interactions with people around us.
Not everyone will like us and vice versa
Not everyone we come across will like us and vice versa, and it is a given. Even when we don’t see it, we give out vibrations that sync with the vibrations of some people, and it doesn’t work with others. People with whom our vibrations matches stay forever in our life and with whom it doesn’t align, there are bound to be quarrels, differences, disputes, and separation, sooner or later. Accept this reality and move on. People who don’t like you would continue to bite you on your back and would continue to hinder your progress and put roadblocks.
Often, we are so blinded by our own belief that we can’t see wrong in other people and continue to have hope that things would get better. Instead, things continue to get worse until that time when differences turn into hate. Sometimes sly people make way into your life that is pretentious and is sugar-coated on the outside but evil inside. It is important to identify these people and keep a safe distance. Sometimes in their weak moments, they do give out some hints that you need to catch and take actions that best suit your interests.
Don’t cling on to your past
Some people are straight up not good for us, and no matter how much you love and respect them or how many sacrifices you do to make them stay in your life, it doesn’t happen. It may hurt you for a while, but it is important to understand that you are better off without people who try to pull you down, disrespect you, take advantage of you and don’t reciprocate or respect the relationship. Don’t cling on to such people and bury those episodes of your life with such people in it. You are meant to grow with time, and as you age, and if something or someone is hindering that, it is natural to clear the path. Self-love is important.
Everything happens for its own good
Human beings are emotional by nature, and thus, we often get stuck in the past. While we must not forget our past as there is a lot to learn from it, one must not let the hurt given by someone or our mistake ridicule our present. Everything happens for its good. While we might not see the benefits immediately, we almost always look back in the past and see a good reason for why it happened.
Integrity is everything
Good friends don’t talk negatively about you behind your back. People who love you would never belittle you behind your back. It is an important quality called integrity that differentiates good people from the bad. Integrity is what you do when no one’s looking and in general, tells a lot about the moral principles of a person. If someone is talking bad about someone else in front of you, how do you know that person won’t talk bad about you behind your back?
It is these people that you need to stay alert from. Sometimes we don’t identify these people easily, and in one way or the other, such people exit from your life. It might be tough on you for a while, but you’ll feel a surge of positivity after a while in their absence. It is because God has seen a bigger picture for you and has bigger plans for you that you cannot even start to conceive at the moment. Trust the process!