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I missed myself. I’m glad she’s coming back.

Posted by: Mayukh Category: Motivation, Self-Improvement Tags: , , Comments: 0

I missed myself. I’m glad she’s coming back.

I missed myself

Our natural character and misdemeanor go through many changes as we grow up. When we are young, we are innocent and playful, and as we grow up, there are layers of stress and other character traits that we start to inculcate. It is because of the changing lifestyles of people all over the world. In the rat race that we all join to achieve success, we often lose ourselves. There are so many responsibilities that we need to take care of that don’t let us be ourselves nor do things that we love to do. Even as we wait for the weekends, how often have you sat by yourself on the patio with a book that you so want to read for long?

It is not only the responsibilities and stress that changes us but also the relationships that we might be in. Often, strenuous and hurtful relationships can damage something inside you that doesn’t let you be yourself. It is important not to let the true essence of you to get poisoned. The secret to this is to love yourself first before you love anyone else. People often go the extra mile in a relationship, and that’s fine as long as it is reciprocated. But, don’t push yourself too hard or don’t blame yourself if things aren’t working out as you envisioned. Not everything can be in your control, and you are not to be blamed for that.

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Love yourself first

People often lose themselves in the process of healing someone else or in a relationship that is just not working out. If things can be repaired, do it. If things aren’t working out even when you have tried every means, the best way to save yourself is to part ways before it does irreparable damage. You need to draw a line till where you can go. Stick to that line and don’t cross it because it is your life, and you need first to love yourself and take care of yourself. If you continue to give without getting back, it damages your self-worth and self-esteem, which often remains depleted for the lifetime, especially if you don’t pull back at the right time.

don't lose yourselfForgive 

Forgiving the people who have hurt you can help you uncover the layers of stress and hurt beneath your true self. When you hold a grudge, you’re blocking a part of you to function forever, even if you don’t realize it. Let go of the grudges and forgive people who hurt you while swiftly deleting such people from your life. Let people go on their own journey while you go on your own. Deleting toxic and hurtful people from your life will fill your life with positivity and help you feel liberated. It may seem hard to forgive those who have blocked your path in different ways and hurt you, but you are doing it for yourself. Forgive and move on.

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Do what you love

Don’t be under the peer and social pressure of achieving a level of success or compare yourself with others. You are on your journey, and your destination is different than that of others. Do things that you love and which makes you happy. When you are happy from inside, it peels off the layer of the social stigma that layers your real self. It is when you’ll indeed find yourself. And, when you love what you do, success will find you automatically.

Love and passion go hand in hand, and whether it is your job, hobby, relationship, or anything else, when you do it with all your heart, results are always positive. Focus on the positive side of things and ignore the negativity no matter how badly it follows you. When you make it a habit to choose positivity over negativity, your thoughts and your entire system will work accordingly. It not only brings happiness in your life but positively impacts your mental and physical health as well.

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